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Astra: What you are needing to do here, this is very important, there are boundaries that need to be drawn. Boundaries are a necessity not only because of this situation being the situation that it is where you are working with a vibration that is hostile towards you, that is controlling, but in all things one must have boundaries. Because you are an important part of this relationship you have the right to draw boundaries and you must have cooperation from the man that you are with because it is his situation and he is needing to take charge, responsibility for what takes place. If you are having the children come and she is bringing the children that is something that cannot be changed. But she is not needing to come onto your premises. What you are needing to say to your husband to be is that this is what needs to take place. She may bring them but she will drop them off at the door and then she will leave, she will not enter. We are not needing to have time with her, we are not needing to socialize with her. The purpose of her coming is to bring you your children and it should not go beyond that purpose. Therefore no one needs to be in a place where there is tension, where there is aggravation, fearing she may say something or behavior that she may perform in my space. This boundary is essential. Q: Would it be appropriate for me to say to the children that there will be times when we will all be together and that will be fine. If you have a dance recital or a concert but other than that Mommy has her family with you and Daddy that is separate from my family with you and Daddy. Astra: That is correct. They will be able to handle that. Always ask yourself when you are angry, what am I afraid of. What is the fear here, then address the fear. Don't address the anger, address the fear because that will help you dissolve the anger. Q: _____ has a very strong sex drive and mine does not match his, which is not a bad thing, I really don't have a problem with it but I do know that my sex drive has diminished over the years and I wonder what that has to do with. Astra: That has to do with you going into your God consciousness. Now this may be very difficult to understand. When a Be-ing is working on raising consciousness, working on the God self, the more the Be-ing learns, the higher the energy goes, the less the desire for coarse, physical contact. A Be-ing who is celibate for an example in the physical plane, chooses celibacy because they are working on the God self only and continuously. The God energy comes through the same gland as the sex energy, because sexual energy is creative energy, it is very forceful energy, it is an energy that lifts vibration. So that is what the climax is about, lifting the vibration and it explodes and expands your vibration, but when it is being used through ego consciousness it is distorted and it creates more blockages than it creates expansion. So when you are hearing that there are two Be-ings and they are in the light together they are having sex together within the physical, their sexual energy rises way above the physical. It is not about coarse physical sex, it is about love, it is about God and it brings the energy to a very high vibration which is the most beautiful physical gift that man can experience in the physical body. But while man is working on his God self, and he chooses to become celibate it is because it is the pituitary gland that the God energy also comes through to the body and he is working specifically on that healing, on that light, on receiving that God energy and he does his expansion by himself. Understand again that man is all of creation in one unit, you are everything. So it is almost like saying you are having sexual experience through the God energy, being a whole, all in one. Now the experience of having that sexual contact in the physical form is there for many reasons, many levels of learning of the self and even though it is a coarse form, it is also a form that teaches about reproduction, the miracle of life, it also has glimpses of love and the feeling of the elation of the Creator within it and then of course it can also become totally distorted and bring the ego to depths that are of great damage. When a Be-ing as yourself begins to work on the God self there is something within that is saying to you the sexual contact is desired on a higher plane. So therefore it is not as attracting to your energy any longer, but do not fear that the God self is interfering with the life. That would be a perception that many Be-ings would take. Forget my God self, forget working on my inner Be-ing because I'm losing physical satisfaction and good sexual contact. This is a mistake to take that perception because as you raise yourself you are preparing yourself for that union of a higher plane. This is why we are saying to Be-ings that you cannot be with a partner that is not vibrating at the same level of consciousness as yourself and be in that light of balance and joy that you are truly seeking. When Be-ings are both working and they are both growing in the God consciousness, they are both working to heal and to raise themselves, then they work together sexually as well and they are raising their sexual energy and then their connection is more beautiful, more expansive, as they grow together, that is what growth together is about on this level and on every level. So therefore when it is not there then there is an imbalance and that is why many Be-ings do not stay together because they are not vibrating together and they don't understand what that mechanism is and they cannot figure out what they need to do in order to bring it to them. A Be-ing who is spiritual and working will recognize this and will ask the partner to work in this way, and if the partner is open and the partner is willing then they can work together, but if a partner is not open and is not willing then you will go through the darkness and you will learn your lessons, and you will see your truth as it should be. Is this understood? Q: I don't know where we are. Where ______ and I are in this picture because in some ways I see him as open but I don't see his attention going in that direction. If I speak about spiritual things, he's open in as much as he listens and takes something from it but he is not exactly seeking. Astra: No, he is not consciously working on himself and that is what is needed. You see his obsession with sex is coming through ego consciousness. It is an ego obsession. It is like a drug for him. Sex becomes the preferred drug , the drug to forget, the drug that will keep you from looking at your darkness, the drug that will block you from having to do anything that would speak of taking responsibility for the self. It is like taking pot, it is like taking heroin, drinking, it is a preferred drug. There are multitudes of Be-ings that use sex as their preferred drug. You must encourage him to take the spiritual path, the path of enlightenment, the path of seeing his truth and recognizing his darkness, his fears, facing who he is, facing his own darkness. You see when you take a drug it is that you are afraid to acknowledge your fears, you are afraid to see what your faults are. The only way to heal these perceptions, these dark places is to hold them up to the light, to accept them, to know that they are a part of you, not to hate them, but to love them well means to hold them into the light, see understand where they come from and in understanding the darkness no longer has power over you. Q: The other questions that I have are about __________. She is reading a lot on the internet, some of which she shares with me, and I was kind of interested in this one aspect of the information that deals with DNA and they call in the 12 strands of DNA and that it is actually supposed to help you to raise your vibration so that you are living on a higher consciousness, and deal with life from a different level. It says that the two strands that we have is not what our potential is. I am really not as familiar as I should be to talk about it clearly with her. Astra: The DNA within a human being is very connected to the material and the physical. You are living on your two strands of DNA that have to do with the material and the physical world. Your material bodies and their abilities to sustain and their flaws, meaning their diseases, and the level of the diseases that are there, we call them the energies that are out of balance, but they are there for a purpose because they are created out of God consciousness and many Be-ings bring certain diseases into the body before they even enter into the physical plane that will trigger the disease at certain points within the physical life and it is there for the purpose of growth and it is also there for the purpose of escaping, leaving the plane. In other words there is an exit door. Think of it in that way, because that is what it is. The other stands of DNA energy are memories and they are accumulations of memories of God self on many different levels. There are so many different levels of the God energy and all the stands come into the different levels and layers, meaning where you have had the experiences of your eternal energy on many different planets, on many different levels of the creation and all that knowledge is yours but it is not activated in the physical plane and it is deliberately not activated in the physical plane because if it were all activated and you were all present, then you would be all God, do you see what we are saying? When you are all God then you are not needing to be in this physical learning plane. So what you are doing is you are adding stands while you are here through the uplifting of the consciousness, through the experience of the physical that opens you to a higher consciousness in this life, in this body. Let us say you are a Be-ing of total ego consciousness, and you are then working with the two stands of DNA energy, wave-lengths of energy we call them. As you are working through the experiencing of the physical ego you are becoming more frightened. As we have said before, frightened of the darkness. When you come to the bottom of that darkness you seek the light and as you are seeking the light you are directing the ego into a God consciousness - into seeking God. The seeking of God, the seeking of your God self brings another stand of DNA energy to you, another wave-length so you no longer have two, you have three. Do you see what we are saying? As you keep working and as you keep learning of the God self, and as you keep remembering your true identity, and your memory grows and grows, you bring in more of the wave-lengths, these stands of energy that are directly connected to the God force which is your true identity. Each lifetime you are working to bring more stands of energy with you but as you come in, in each lifetime you only come with two, unless you are of an energy that is specifically chosen to come to help mankind, then you are going to be coming in with more DNA stands, you are coming in with three, four, five whatever is needed in the moment. Yet there are human beings that are working in the God energy that need to keep some of those stands disconnected in order to do the work. You see what we saying? They cannot have all that information or all that energy present. They couldn't ground themselves here because the earth is a very dense vibration. So they bring what they need in order to ground into the physical and do the work they have come to do. So Be-ings are working with three stands when they are here to heal the inner self and to awaken all those places within them that are ready to awaken to the truth, to your true identity. Q: How many stands can you activate and still be grounded in the earth's energy? Astra: Nine. No more than nine. Q: Thank you very much. That is all I have to ask about at this time. Astra: We will then ground Anna's energy. You are blessed within the light of the One.
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